A few things genuinely help while you wait for regrowth:
Be gentle. Tight ponytails and rough brushing accelerate shedding on already-vulnerable hair. Loose styles and a wide-tooth comb are your friends right now.
Support from the inside. Iron, biotin, and zinc are commonly depleted postpartum. A good postnatal supplement and a balanced diet do more for your hair than most topical products.
Give your scalp some love. A gentle scalp massage with a nourishing oil a few times a week can support circulation and feel good when you haven't had five minutes to yourself all day.
Try extensions - the right kind. The wrong type of extension on already-thinning hair can cause more stress on the hair shaft. The right type can be transformative.